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Offline Eientei

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Re: Adulthood
« Reply #60 on: January 26, 2008, 04:26:01 PM »
Y'know, from a certain point of view, getting married seems like giving up freedom for security and we (especially the Americans here) know how that winds up ending.

I wouldn't mind being chained down, depending on who it's with.  I might even enjoy it.

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Re: Adulthood
« Reply #61 on: January 26, 2008, 04:28:49 PM »
i im right on what im thinking, your a sick perv
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Offline The Empire

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Re: Adulthood
« Reply #62 on: January 26, 2008, 04:37:59 PM »
My girl sent me a heart-shaped pendant engraved with her name and a date, she had been given it at her baptising (as an infant) and I have worn it in a leather cord almost 24/7 since I got it, only taking it off for showers, I relish that connection and I am proud of stating that I am hers no matter what.

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Offline Eientei

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Re: Adulthood
« Reply #63 on: January 26, 2008, 07:39:26 PM »
i im right on what im thinking, your a sick perv

Hey, I didn't say anything sick or perverted.

Offline The Empire

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Re: Adulthood
« Reply #64 on: January 26, 2008, 07:55:04 PM »
He's talking about himself Ei' :P

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Re: Adulthood
« Reply #65 on: January 26, 2008, 07:55:46 PM »
duh
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Offline Eientei

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Re: Adulthood
« Reply #66 on: January 26, 2008, 08:00:24 PM »
Ah, my mistake.

Offline Durnia

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Re: Adulthood
« Reply #67 on: January 27, 2008, 03:27:49 PM »
I was going to make an intelligent contribution, but...

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Offline Bara

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Re: Adulthood
« Reply #68 on: January 27, 2008, 05:35:43 PM »
then make a stupid one.

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Offline Solnath

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Re: Adulthood
« Reply #69 on: January 27, 2008, 07:52:49 PM »
then make a stupid one.

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Re: Adulthood
« Reply #70 on: January 27, 2008, 08:24:24 PM »
Y'know, from a certain point of view, getting married seems like giving up freedom for security and we (especially the Americans here) know how that winds up ending.

I wouldn't mind being chained down, depending on who it's with.  I might even enjoy it.

As long as it wasn't George W Bush.

Now for an intelligent comment @ Al's original post:

I think being an adult start whenever you want it to.  You pointed out that some people start becoming self sufficient.  Truth is, there are still other people who will scrounge off their parents for a long time yet (it's quite a big problem here in the UK).  These people are still considered adults though. For me you become an adult when you have the chance to make your own way in society, even if you don't take that chance.

However, the more important thing I think is when do you become responsible, not necessarily for others, but simply for your self.  This part I think can happen whenever you take it upon yourself to make something of yourself, not at a set age.

All that being said, I'm still in college (High School for all you Yanks) so am not really at the stage yet where I can say anything out of experience.

Offline Allama

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Re: Adulthood
« Reply #71 on: February 01, 2008, 03:24:44 PM »
There are very many people in my generation in the U.S. who mooch off of their parents for years and years after getting out of school, as well, most not even paying rent/contributing to the household.  Point in fact: of all of my offline friends between 22-27, I am the only one who has ever lived alone.  Most of them live/lived with their parents at least until 24-25, and those who have moved out live with roomies.  There's nothing wrong with roomies, of course, but it struck me as very odd when I found out I was the only one who chose to do it by herself.  Maybe my generation is lazy and scared, or maybe our parents' generation is overly indulgent... either way, it seems wrong for a 26-year-old man employed full-time and making plenty of money to still be living off of Mommy and Daddy's dime.

Oh, and don't worry about not having gone through this stage, yet; the human mind is capable of imaging and even understanding a great many things foreign to its own experience.

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Re: Adulthood
« Reply #72 on: February 01, 2008, 03:36:35 PM »
Quote from: Allama
Maybe my generation is lazy and scared, or maybe our parents' generation is overly indulgent... either way, it seems wrong for a 26-year-old man employed full-time and making plenty of money to still be living off of Mommy and Daddy's dime.

I agree. There's no excuse for that. If a person lives at home with their parents at 26 and is employed full time then they are not an adult. They are a full grown child. I have no respect for people like that.



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Re: Adulthood
« Reply #73 on: February 01, 2008, 03:44:27 PM »
Me neither, they don't deserve any, hell, they don't even deserve to vote.

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Re: Adulthood
« Reply #74 on: February 01, 2008, 03:49:43 PM »
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