That made sense to me and I happen to agree with both of you; as a society we discourage deviation. We do accept certain levels of it, of course, but if someone deviates in a way we don't expect or that goes beyond our often quite limited boundaries, it's suddenly a huge issue and that person is considered troublesome at best and a dangerous monster at worst. Each culture does this, though the boundaries may be a little tighter or looser and bend in different directions.