I'm an independent, though I wouldn't say a particularly hard line one.
How can one be a hard line independent?
I'm a defender all the way. To be honest, I shudder to think we could be independents. It's such a difficult alignment to justify to non-independents and makes foreign affairs difficult. Of course I feel we should not have alliances/embassies with invaders.
It doesn't make foreign affairs difficult, not at all. It is only misunderstood by people who haven't taken the time to analyze it or by people who deliberately mislead others about it. I am not advocating that Taijitu take a independent stance, I prefer our neutral stance, and would advocate against changing from that path.
Firstly, I think Taijitu's alliance with TNP is more important to us than TNP's perceived alignment.
Secondly, I think that Independent often turns into an effectively raiderish stance because raids are much easier to organize: There are about 500 unpassworded founderless user-created regions, and the vast majority of them are quite vulnerable to invasion. Defending against invasions takes either excellent intelligence or constant attention, and liberating against an active occupier is definitely much harder than invading against an unprepared native delegate (or even no delegate at all).
I also like Taijitu's current stance, but I think it's neutral in much the same way as most independent regions' stance is independent: symbolically.
I definitely don't think we should go "extreme." Usually when people talk about "extreme" defenders, for instance, they mean Unibot or even The Red Factions. "Extreme" raiders, on the other hand, generally means griefers, which I would definitely not want to see us doing.