If they have you at gunpoint and you reach for your gun, they will shoot you. If you don't have a gun, they think they have an upperhand against you and get cocky. Also, if they want to kill you, they will.It depends on the situation. If a robber has his gun pointed at you, you'd be a total idiot if you pulled yours. But, if some lunatic is on a shooting spree, you might be able to get to your gun while he's killing someone else, and you have nothing to lose by trying anyway (assuming you can't escape).
That's the thing - there are different situations where a person's life is at risk. If someone already has a gun pointed at you, then whether you have a gun in the closet is a moot point. On the other hand, if someone has just broken into your house and you're in that room with that closet, you may be able to get to yours before he reaches you. Or your children.
imagine you walk in your gf's house, you see something pretty and grab it, suddendly the mother or father comes with shotgun and shoots you to death cuz she/he neva saw you in theire lives and think you'r a robber
That's a different situation from one where your life is in danger. The laws in the US are very strict on this - you or your loved one's life must be in immediate danger when you shoot, or you'll be charged with murder. You can't just shoot someone because they're robbing you or your home. You have to prove that if you hadn't shot that gun, you or your loved one would be dead. Those laws are meant to motivate people -not- to shoot indiscriminately. If that was common in the US, the right to bear arms wouldn't be so popular here.
If we'r shot dead by a criminal because we didnt had a way to defend ourselves in time, whats my concern? The law will do something...plus, im dead.
My concern is that I don't want to die if I can prevent it. And I most certainly do not want my child to die - if that happens, he might as well have killed me. If either of those happens, and the law catches the criminal and he's put in jail, or even put to death, it won't bring back the dead. I'd rather prevent us from dying if I can. If there is some other way of preventing it, then I'll do that - I'd rather not shoot anyone unless absolutely necessary, either to injure or to kill. Even if I didn't feel that way, the strict laws on the use of guns in self-defense would be enough to motivate me - I wouldn't want want to go to jail for it either.
But if killing him is the -only- way to stop it from happening, I wouldn't say to myself 'well either way someone's dead so I'm not going to shoot'. Of course I'll shoot him. I would much rather he be dead than my child. Or myself. We have as much right to live as the perpetrator does, and if killing him is the only way to stop him from killing us, you can bet I'll shoot him. Absolutely. I'm not going to put his right to live above ours.
The pro-gun people, in Taijitu as well, claimed after the VT massacre that more guns was the answer, because if the students were armed they could have shot back.
There will always be extremists in every subject. Fanatics will jump at opportunities to try to convince people that they're right. That certainly isn't the view of the average person.
The majority of people in the US do not want to see college kids carrying handguns to class. Or grownups walking around the streets with them, either. Don't forget that there is also a strong anti-gun lobby as well, along with the gun rights lobby. The average person falls somewhere in the middle - give us the right to bear arms, but within reason.